Friendships.. I wonder what it meant for some people, to me I really treassure friendship somehow they always thought that I dont, maybe I do not know how to convey myself but I do know how I feel in my heart.
I sincerely treassure friends but I dont know they way they see it. Perhaps they thought that I am that kind of person who take friends for granted but I am very sure that I am not. For those who feel this way, then it’s too bad because I am not.
Some people can just ignore you after some sort of incident and that’s the end of the friendship? Where me will still be thinking about it whether of the incident or of the person who is involve.
For such friendship I guess there is really nothing to be cherish, as no effort taken to patch or mend things back. Such friends I should erase from my memory or just stay ignorant? To ignore I can’t because I will be definitely thinking about it not sure about others, as sometimes I feel i am being taken for granted.
Should stop feeling sorry for myself, if the person don’t treassure me then why should I waste my effort and my sincerity, I rather be alone then.
To friends who do not know how to treassure friends stay away, if your motive is just to use the other party then please do believe in karma, it will get you back one day.
One thing I have learnt, friends that comes easily never last for some reason.
So how do we know to cherish or to ignore, for me I have trouble deciding it, i am trying very best to please everyone, sometimes I find it hard because at the end I am not happy, and for the get back, no one treassures me.. hahah.. Life itself is hard enough, what I would need is friends that is true and sincere.
Be nice to friends that you really want to cherish, for those whom you dont wish to cherish pls let them know and tell them off dont make them think that they are your friends as they would wanna do things to impress and to keep the relationship alive where you would be take things for granted. To me if you really care for a friend what ever happen how angry you are with them, you wouldnt cut off communications with them for those who do, I guess you are not true at all. Unless it is something really unforgiveable.
Cherish in order to be cherished, ignore if you wouldn’t want to cherish or to be cherished~
